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Hi, I‘m Tiffany. I am Bisexual.

Hi everyone! I'm a mother of two, married to a wonderful man, and I'm bisexual! I live in northern Florida and I currently work in a 24 hour restaurant, but am in the process of opening up my own bakery! Baking is my ultimate passion and I can't wait to share it with the world!

What being bisexual means to me

I just came out about my bisexuality two years ago and it was such a relief! I was always told growing up that having any kind of feelings for the same sex was utterly and completely wrong, but I couldn't help my feelings. I should be able to love whomever I choose to, regardless of their gender.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

Just because we are attracted to both sexes does not mean we are sex addicts! I have been called some not so nice things since coming out, and a sex addict was one of them. Just because I have a husband whom allows me to discover my bisexuality without him does not mean I am one! I have fell in love with a woman and I don't need to have sex with her to feel that way!

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

The judgment. Some of my own family is completely against me being bisexual. They tell me it's not real and that I'm just looking for attention. They tell me I'm going to hell and it's against Gods will. I get really tired of hearing that. I've done my Bible research... People sin every single day according to that book!

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

The open mindedness. Being non judgmental. Also, having a support system with the LGBT community.And the fact that I can fall in love with whom I choose... Love is love! :)

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Most are accepting, but some not so much. It hasn't changed my feelings though.. I am who I am!

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

I was 14 when I realized I had feelings for the same sex. I ignored the feelings for 2 years until I connected with a lesbian online. I formed feelings for her and when we did meet I was physically attracted as well. I didn't come out until I was 26. I wish I would have had the courage to come out sooner.. I denied who I was for so long! So my advice is be honest with yourself. Some people
may not accept it, including your own family. Yes it does suck, but you will feel so much better once you do.. I know I did!!! :)