Male

Bisexual

United States



Hi, I‘m William. I am Bisexual.

Married 25 years two adult children and a beautiful granddaughter. I have always been very sexual and looked beyond traditional social ideals. Wife is older and less sexual in nature, although we did some swing exploring in the past. I have many sometimes contrasting segments of my life from a white collar job, to a love of building motorcycles and cars and collecting tattoos to being a long time active volunteer firefighter.

What being bisexual means to me

It simply means not setting boundaries or limitations. While I am not a fan of labels (I am not even familiar with most on the dropdown list) I guess I would be labeled as bi-poly maybe pansexual I see sexuality as the ultimate expression of humanity.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

That we are not confused.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

Being honest with myself about who I am

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

Living in a small rural location it is difficult to be open and find open minded peers. People understand being gay but struggle to understand bisexuality and even more being poly. I struggle more with monogamy than my bisexuality.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

Not to sound arrogant but being bisexual is the ultimate expansion of sexuality. Human sexuality is the root of who we are yet most people but such little thought into it.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

My wife and my best friend (female) are only ones that know.