United States

Hi, I‘m Stachia. I am Bisexual.

Hi! I am a mother of 3 beautiful children. Dylon is my oldest rough and tough dude and he is turning 6 this year. Elaina, my gorgeous, sweet, and funny little girl is 3. Finally Caydn is my sweet and funny baby boy. I am married to a funny and handsom naval sailor. We have been from the east coast to the west coast following his career. We are both from sunny Arizona which we miss so much. Its my favorite place to be. Some of my favorite hobbies include video gaming, photography, graphic design, and reading. Oh! And sleeping of course. ;)

What being bisexual means to me

To me, being a bisexual means to like or love anyone of the male or female genders. There are other sexual orientations that include the extensive LGBT members. I have loved members of both the male and female genders even though I am currently in a heterosexual marriage.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

Bisexuals are NOT confused. I know EXACTLY what I like in sexual and platonic relationships. As a bisexual, I love handholding, kissing, touching, of course sex but above that I crave company, and love. It doesn't matter if my significant other has male genitalia or female.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

I have always found both males and females attractive but it wasn't until my junior year that I came to understand my orientation. There was this girl.... she made me feel like I lived the scene of Aladdin where he was telling Genie about Jasmine and he was so excited that he couldn't spit it all out and ended up sighing. That was her. Beautiful, smart, and crazy all rolled into one perfect package. And when she asked me out I finally figured out who I was.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

Listening to bigot minded individuals say I am confused, or going to hell, or that I need help from a therapist.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

I am not sure there is a such thing. Everyone is great the way they are. There is no best part of any sexual orientation I think.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

I've had reactions on all parts of the spectrum. From ecstatic to repulsive.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Just let yourself go! If you are bi, or think your are bi, then be you!