Male

Bisexual

India



Hi, I‘m Zahur. I am Bisexual.

Hi there, I'm Zahur Virani. I come From India. I am a student. My hobbies would be football and cooking ♥. I live with a divorced mother in the small state of Goa. I am very outgoing, social and proud of who I am. I guess we all should be. ♥ I make sure I never run out of style. ♥

What being bisexual means to me

It's a huge part of me. It's me and people should somehow accept it. I love who I am. I am proud to be myself. ♥ Love Is Love. ♥

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

Yes, bisexuality does exist in humans as well as animals. It is a natural thing, and if it is a part of you, don't deny it. Live with it. There's nothing wrong about loving both genders. Somehow it's considered taboo in many places. I just want my community to be given freedom.
To me, bisexuality exists in everyone, from 1% to 100%. Well, in us, we are 100% bisexual.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

Actually, no one really knows I'm bisexual. I'll come out when the right time comes. I'm just not ready.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

It's acceptance, basically, from parents and society.

Drowning yourself in self-hate, just because of some brainwashed idiots, won't help. Some people just don't learn to live with it, and hate themselves.

Basically, I come from an Indian society which is strict and conservative. It's considered taboo. But, the good part is acceptance is increasing here.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

Love, love and love. ♥

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Well, just five others know. They were fine with it. xD


What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Please, please love yourself. Love is not wrong. Don't drown in self-hate. Be proud of who you are, even if you are all alone. People who really care will love you no matter what.
♥ It's not about the others, it's about loving yourself. ♥