Female

Bisexual

United States



Hi, I‘m Aryan. I am Bisexual.

Uhm I'm 13 years old and I love bands. I live in New York and I love singing and writing both of which I suck at. I like many bands like panic at the disco, fall out boy, black veil brides, sleeping with sirens, pierce the veil, you get the point. A lot. I like reading horror, mystery, poetry, and a bit of romance occasionaly. I guess that's it about me personally.

What being bisexual means to me

Being attracted to not just the opposite gender

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

That we exist and we are valid. We are not just indecisive people or promiscuous people. Our sexuality does not dictate our sex life.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

It started back in 5th grade when I was exploring myself and my identity during a rough time and I noticed that I actually found myself attracted to other girls. I thought I wasn't a lesbian so I couldn't be right but I eventually grew to accept I like both genders, physically and emotionally. So now I identify as bisexual

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

When people say your identity is invalid and you're just "indecisive" or "promiscuous"

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

You have a lot more options! Haha.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

My friends have just given me the best support ever and I love them to death for it.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Don't stress it if you're not totally attracted to more than one gender. It's okay to favor one over the other.Just think things through and let things take its course.