Male

Bisexual

Finland



Hi, I‘m Janos. I am Bisexual.

I'm a marketer from the mobile gaming industry. I'm currently living in Finland, but I'm originally from Hungary. I love sports, the outdoors, good food & cinema, but I prefer spending time actively & I'm always open to meet new people.

What being bisexual means to me

It means balance - this is what feels natural to me.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

We are not necessarily right, wrong or confused; we're just different, and this is what makes the world interesting & diverse.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

I have tried to fit into both straight & gay communities; neither has yielded any success. Sometimes, "being on the fence" is just the best place to be.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

Being mistaken for a 'straight-acting' gay man.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

Having the ability to really focus on finding people you can connect with: healthy soul in a healthy body, regardless of sex.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

There have been a wide range of opinions, but the general tone is, "Ah, so you're on the way to admitting that you're gay."

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

It's a bit of a cliché, but true; life is too short to try living someone else's life. Be brave and seize the day.