Female

Bisexual

Poland



Hi, I‘m Kasia. I am Bisexual.

I live in Poland in a small town. I'm an International Baccalaureate (IB) Diploma student and I'm 17 years old. I've got wonderful parents and a sister. Also, I've got the best friend in the world. I'm completely in love with music. I play a few instruments. In the future, I'd like to work as a sound engineer or a programmist.

What being bisexual means to me

Being bisexual means to me that I can fall in love with someone because of their character features, hobbies, etc. and don't care about their gender.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

That bisexual doesn't mean gay, and that bisexuals can be in a monogamous relationship.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

About 3 years ago, I realized that I looked the same way at females and males. I could've said to both, "Damn, you're so hot". It was unacceptable to me because I grew up in Catholic family, so I rejected the thought that I was bi.

However, around a year later, I fell in love with my girlfriend and I didn't tell anybody about it. Since then, I made a lot of research on the Internet and found familiar stories and accepted myself. I did't tell anybody until last month. I told my 3 best friends that I'm bisexual, and they fully accepted it and nothing has changed.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

I haven't found one yet.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

I've got better chance of a date. :)

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

My best friends accepted me without any doubts. They also said that they're glad that I'm true to myself.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Don't care about others' opinions. Live your life and be happy :)