United States

Hi, I‘m Desiree. I am Bisexual.

I am Desiree. I was born and raised in the Central Valley of CA. I am an office/lab Manager. My passion is music/writing. I love reading about science, spirituality and many interesting topics. I am a happy mother and grandmother. I have been single for over 10 years and supporting my family independently. I love humor, and use it regularly in my communication with others. I love life!

What being bisexual means to me

I am attracted to and fall in love with people for who they are. 'When it comes to love, I don't choose sides' lol

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

I would like the world to know that Bi-Sexuals are the same as everyone else. There are good and bad in all walks of life. We are no different in that respect. We are capable of and do love our neighbors, we recycle and care about the planet, we love our families, we are each individuals with our own characters...etc.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

Hmmm...my path! Well as long as I can remember I have been attracted to and had crushes on males and females.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

Not knowing where the 'real me' fits in to the whole of life......or trying to figure that out.....was a long road....now I fit in where ever I go :)

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

I have always felt deep down that I am free. I don't have limits....its very liberating to know that the love of my life can be anyone, and can come from anywhere....and I look forward to meeting that person (male or female)

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Others like me have been accepting and supporting. My children love me very much and love who I am. My father was always supportive of me for exactly who I am, even if he didn't understand it. My extended family (cousins, siblings ext.) support me for me. I choose to focus on the good reactions.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Love yourself