Female

Bisexual

United States



Hi, I‘m Sara. I am Bisexual.

I am 32 years old and live in Denver Colorado. I am part owner of a plumbing and heating business. I have 3 children and my husband and I have been married for almost 6 years.

What being bisexual means to me

Being bi means freedom and power to choose who is best for me, apart from what sexual organs they may have.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

Bis are not confused or scared, we are empowered and strong.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

I have had feelings for other women throughout my life and pushed them away and didn't meet them head on. Recently I fell for a woman and after much consideration I came out to my husband of 6 years. Let's just say he wasn't really thrilled.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

Trying to explain in to my kids and family members.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

Freedom and power to choose.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Sadness, anger, confusion, acceptance, and joy.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Try to reflect throughout your life. Write instances down where you believe your attraction for the same sex may have occured. List these instances and score the intensity of the feelings. Then just be honest with yourself.