Male

Bisexual

United States



Hi, I‘m Evin. I am Bisexual.

If I could only say that I'm down to earth without sounding cliche. I'm a jeans and t-shirt guy unless it's winter then it's throw on a soft mid layer and wool socks. I'm also one of those weirdos who actually likes winter. Love playing in the snow. Downhill skiing or winter camping. I'm big on coffee and late nights. Not much into the bar dance scene and I consider myself a closet foodie. I am also a fan of upland game, the outdoors, single track biking, reading, writing, and the Oxford comma.

What being bisexual means to me

Loving both genders for their likenesses and differences. Plus the fact that there are things to love that one gender has that the other does not.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

We're not all sex fiends.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

Ever since third grade I've known. Never acted on it until I was 19 and an older couple approached me for some three way fun. They taught me a lot about being a sexual human and later discovered the husband was bi and so we all got along famously after that.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

The misunderstandings of other people. Close mindedness if I had to categorize it.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

The people who are bisexual tend to be open minded, caring, trustworthy people, and that's what I enjoy the most. People who feel and believe the same way I do.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

My wife is bisexual, when I came out to her she wasn't into it. Some women aren't but she encourages me to go out and meet others.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Take your time, find those you can trust and blossom slowly.