United States

Hi, I‘m Brynlei. I am Bisexual.

Texas girl born and raised. Biological mom of 2, bonus mom of 3. Partnered. Masters in Education. Homeschooling stay at home mom. Polyamorous in addition to bisexual. Tattooed, pierced, geeky, Betty crocker punk rocker. The Droid you're looking for

What being bisexual means to me

I care for my female partner as much as my male one. I love my partner not his/her gender and an attracted to males and females alike. It's a part of me as much as heterosexual or homosexuality is to others.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

We exist! Some of us are poly but others are not. Being with a male or female partner doesn't mean we aren't bisexual.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

I experimented and began questioning as a young adult. In short order it was clear this wasn't curiousity but a part of who I am. Loving women doesn't mean I stopped loving men.... Bisexual is who I am.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

People thinking it means I'm bound to cheat

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

I can love my partner freely regardless of gender

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Overall, positive or not at all actually. It just.. Is.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Own it. Love yourself. Bisexual is valid as much as any other sexuality. Find your tribe!