Male

Bisexual

United States



Hi, I‘m Joshua. I am Bisexual.

I am a cubicle-ridden office worker. I enjoy family, painting, rabbits and feeding the birds. I also enjoy working on our house. I have been married over a year now to my wonderful wife.

What being bisexual means to me

It means having tons of love for everyone. I am monogamous in my marriage, but I still desire men, so I just enjoy it when they walk by, and appreciate my wife for her patience. lol.

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

We have more love than most people. We want to have relationships with lots of people, and we find many more beautiful.

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

I have not totally come out to everyone, and now that I am married, people that know I'm bisexual just ignore it. That makes things very difficult.

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

The toughest thing is that I cannot love a male and female at the same time, even though I want to. I really wish I could have that.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

I find everyone attractive, and that can be a lot of fun.

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Other people have reacted negatively, for the most part. Some have said, "No big deal," but they are few and far between.

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Just be patient and honest. If people are negative, you don't need them... even if they are family.