Female

Bisexual

United States



Hi, I‘m Candy. I am Bisexual.

I am a 34 year old , married, mother of 3. From as far back as 7 years old I knew that I liked females as well as males. I have always been bisexual and I'm very open about my sexuality. I do enjoy the swingers lifestyle and my husband and I also enjoy threesomes. Just our preference. I am an open book so if anyone has any questions for me please don't hesitate to ask

What being bisexual means to me

To me it means I have more freedom than most to be attracted to whomever I like, I don't have to be labeled to one or the other. Its just me and who I am! And I love me :)

What I would like the world to know about bisexuals

We are not liars who can't pick a "side" we are just like everyone else we just don't fit into the typical mold

What was your path to a bisexual identity?

I was attracted to females at a young age, before my attraction to men started. I didn't label myself, I just let myself develop into what I was meant to be and the path I was meant to take in life

What is the toughest thing about being bisexual?

All the questions from my gay and straight friends as to why I CHOSE to be bisexual. Its not a choice for me, I cannot speak for anyone else but it's just who I always have been.

What is the best thing about being bisexual?

Everything ;)

How have other people in your life reacted to your bisexuality?

Nothing really negative just a lot of questions and people asking me why I am the way I am,what happened to me and things like that

What advice do you have for someone who thinks they may be bi or who is in the process of coming out as bi?

Just be yourself, love yourself and be true to who you are. Follow your heart and do what's best for you, my favorite quote sums it up best. "Those who matter won't mind and those who mind, don't matter"