Category Archives

3 Reasons To Quit Saying “I Don’t Date Bi People”

Why so many people feel the need to inform me of this dating prejudice, even when I've shown absolutely no interest in them, is beyond me. At the very least, these exchanges are just plain strange. But they are also very upsetting and here's why.


Bi and Poly Part II: How to Ask your Partner For a Non-Monogamous Relationship

The thing about non-monogamous relationships: There’s no unified definition. The more non-monogamous folks I encounter, the more I’m shocked by the number of configurations and variety of rules that exist within the non-monogamous community.


Yay for Bi Visibility: Our 11 #iamBi Contest Winners!

Thanks to all the folks who shared their stories. It is wonderful to know that our community is so large, so diverse, and so proud!


In Your Own Words: Coming Out Bi

In celebration of National Coming Out Day, we decided to highlight some great coming out stories shared by members of the Bi.org community. Here they are, in your own words:


Not Just Another Male Gaze

How does a bi man -- who doesn’t want to be like the stereotypical objectifying straight guy -- reveal that they’re bi in a way that’s not overtly sexual or predatory?


6 Facts About Sex I Wish they had Taught me in School

Talking about sex can be weird, and often we just don't ask questions. We assume we know it all, because really how complicated can sex be?


Bi and Mighty

Happy Bi Visibility Day 2016! Here are some things we'd like to see accomplished before many more Bi Visibility Days have passed. What's on your Bi Wish List?


Finding Community at Comic-Con

When I asked Tara Avery how she became involved in bi activism, her answer was simple. “I just showed up.”


Being a Bi Man Isn’t About Being a “Masculine” Fantasy

Just like not all lesbians are "butch" and not all gay men are "queens," not all bi guys are a gay man's stereotyped fantasy of masculinity. Our sexual orientation is more than your porn fetish. Sorry.


8 Questions I Get Asked As A Bisexual Woman

By asking me questions like this, people deny the love and intimacy I have with my partner, assuming we are only together for sex; that sex with her could never compare to sex with a man.


5 Things Not To Say When Your Friend Comes Out

When someone comes out to you, it is not about you and your feelings. It’s about them opening up to you and trusting you with a part of their life that is very fragile.


Self Care for Bi People: Acknowledging the Barriers

It's revolutionary for us to love ourselves without conditions, to take care of ourselves without guilt. And there shouldn’t be any guilt in self care.


Dear You: An Open Love Letter

An Open Valentine for the Bi+ Community, from Bisexual.org


Bisexual = Sexually Available? Weigh in on Community Advice

The question at the Bisexual.org's weekly Community Advice is one that every out bisexual has had to deal with, either subtly or blatantly.


Did Bisexuality Exist Before the Word Was Invented?

Check out the question of the week on the Bisexual.org Facebook page.


Why Isn’t the Bi Community More Visible?

More than 7,700 people saw this question, here are some of their responses.


Fifteen #Bisexual Resolutions for 2015: Be Bisexual and Proud

A few weeks ago we asked our Facebook community#Bisexual Resolutions for 2015: Be Bisexual and Proud to share their new year's resolutions with us. We were impressed with the wide range of responses and wanted to share them with you. We're always here to help support you in achieving your goals throughout the new year!


#BiBlog Fan Post: What Are Bisexuals Thankful For This Holiday Season?

We are THANKFUL for our thriving Facebook community now over 100,000 members strong! We asked YOU what you were most thankful for this year and these were some of our favorites.


#BiVisibility Community Questions: Top Ten Reasons You KNOW You’re Bisexual

We reached out to our active and AWESOME Facebook community and asked them to tell us HOW they knew they were bisexual. We received hundreds of great comments and here are some of our favorites. You can join us on our Facebook page, Twitter and Instgram by following "Bisexualdotorg".


From Our Facebook Community: The Top 30 Most Common Misconceptions About Bisexuals

Bisexual.org has a THRIVING Facebook community over 70,000 members strong. We've tapped into our shared wisdom by asking our community what THEY feel are the most common MISCONCEPTIONS about bisexuals. Here are their TOP answers.