Am I Bi?

A bi person’s romantic and/or sexual attractions are not limited to one sex.  For most people, that simply means that you can be attracted to both men and women.  If you honestly feel you meet that criteria, then you are bisexual.

As a bi person, you do not have to feel the same kind or intensity of attraction to all genders. Your interest in different sexes can be vary a great deal over the years.  Please remember that as a bi person, there is nothing for you to prove, nothing to consummate, no requirement to “maintain” your bisexuality. Understanding and acknowledging your own sexuality is a personal process and is about living with integrity and being true to yourself.

If you are in the process of figuring out your bisexuality, it is likely that you will encounter mixed messages out there in the world, and they won’t always be supportive.  Some people have pretty intense hangups and fears about sex, doubly so when it comes to sexuality that is different from their own. But, this isn’t about them and their issues. This is about you.

There is no right or wrong, better or worse sexuality:
If you figure out you are straight, that’s wonderful.
If you figure out you are gay or lesbian, that’s wonderful.
If you figure out you are bisexual, that’s wonderful too.

The only “mistake” you can make is to be untrue to yourself and try to live a life that is someone else’s vision.  Figure out what makes you tick and what makes you happy. Take precautions to protect yourself physically and mentally, and discover your true self sooner, rather than later.  As the saying goes, it’s better to regret the things you did than regret the things you didn’t do.  It’s your life and you have to live it.  Make it wonderful.