Don’t bi people just want to “have their cake and eat it too?”
That question sounds a lot like envy! Besides when you have cake and don’t eat it, all it does is get stale and moldy. Do you want to get stale and moldy? Bi people, like everyone else, are healthiest when we can be open, honest, and live with integrity. Our reality happens to include the fact that our attractions aren’t limited to just males or just females. We didn’t choose our sexual orientation any more than straight or gay/lesbian people did – being ourselves isn’t a form of overindulgence as the expression implies.
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