Why do bisexuals need to come out in the first place? Can’t they keep their sex lives to themselves?
Coming out is not about flaunting your sex life or airing private matters. Coming out is about putting an end to the lies and is about being honest with those around you. Hiding your sexuality requires an ever-growing web of careful pronoun changes, deliberate omissions, and strategic misrepresentations. Not only does it get exhausting, all that dishonesty creates barriers between you and other people. All that deception is bad for your self-esteem and for your soul.
Coming out is about living with integrity, and connecting openly and honestly with others as your true self.
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