Why can’t you bis just make up your mind and pick one [gender]?
To ask a bi person to pick one gender is to ask them to pick a sexuality that is not their own. It is like asking a straight, gay, or lesbian person to only be attracted to people born on a Monday, Wednesday, or Friday – to do so is entirely arbitrary and demonstrates a basic misunderstanding of what it means to be bisexual.
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